Do I need a prenuptial agreement? How do I get one?

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A prenuptial agreement or ‘prenup’ is a contractual agreement that is set up between two people before getting married. This agreement usually sets out:

  • what assets and liabilities (e.g. property and debt) each person has before getting married and what happens with it after marriage
  • how property and debt are to be dealt with during a marriage
  • what happens to things like property and debt if the couple gets divorced in future or if one of the parties pass away.  

Before we dive into why a prenup could be a good idea for you, let’s quickly look at the three marital property options in South Africa:

  1. In community of property
    • Everything you own (and owe) is combined into one estate which you share with your spouse.
    • You share everything 50/50, including ownership of all assets before marriage and assets obtained during the marriage.  This is also applicable to debts.
    • If one of you goes bankrupt, the other person is in trouble too.
  2. Out of community of property WITHOUT accrual
    • What’s yours stays yours and what’s your partner’s stays his/hers.
    • No sharing of assets or debts – your finances stay separate.
    • This is a good option for protecting personal wealth but it doesn’t consider shared growth in the marriage.
  3. Out of community of property WITH accrual
    • Each spouse keeps their own assets and debts.
    • Any new wealth gained during the marriage is shared fairly if you divorce.
    • This option protects what you owned before the marriage but ensures fairness in what you build together during your marriage.

Important: If you don’t sign a prenup, on default your marriage will be considered in community of property.

You might think that prenuptial agreements are only for the wealthy, but most couples could benefit from setting up a prenuptial agreement. 

  • Protect your assets – A prenup keeps your property, investments or business safe.
  • Avoid debt nightmares – It is a reality that the average person is likely to have some form of debt. If your partner has a lot of debt or they don’t share the reality of their debt with you, a prenup ensures you’re not legally tied to his/her potential financial burdens.
  • Make things clear and fair – Although you don’t want to be thinking about divorce just as you start your marriage, divorce is a possibility. Having a prenup is a way of having difficult conversations and deciding on a plan upfront which means fewer legal headaches if things don’t work out.
  • Secure your kids’ inheritance – If you have kids from a previous relationship, a prenup makes sure their inheritance is protected.

For a prenup to be valid in South Africa, you need to:

✅ sign it in front of a notary public BEFORE getting married
✅ register it at the Deeds Office within three months after the marriage.

If you skip these steps, your marriage will automatically fall under ‘in community of property’ by default.

Getting a prenup isn’t about planning for divorce – it’s about planning for the future. It’s a way to protect yourself, your partner and everything you’ve worked for. Let Strydom Rabie Inc. guide you through this process by contacting us for efficient, affordable and all-inclusive service.